I’m drugged up and I hate it. That’s about as direct and to the point as it gets. Okay, to be fair, drugged up is a bit of an exaggeration. I’m on something that makes my mood stable, as in flat-lined, as in no creativity at all. As a writer, (or someone trying desperately to become a writer) having a big blank space in my head where scenes and high emotion used to play on a full-time loop is really the last thing I need. As someone with chronic anxiety, panic, and depression, having nothing to ruminate on in my endless imagination is the only way to get better.
One of my favorite films, Stranger Than Fiction, shows an insanely desperate writer, Karen Eiffel (played masterfully by Emma Thompson) trying to overcome her writer’s block. I love her performance because I’ve been exactly there so many times, carefully treading the thin line between imagination and reality and slipping every now and again to one side or the other without realizing it. I suppose that’s not healthy in any way but I identify with that character and her need to just get the words right, to describe what she sees until she gets so wrapped up she can’t see the solution. Now, unlike Emma Thompson with her writer’s block, I can no longer close my eyes and see my imagination. I used to be able to see landscapes and events like she did, feeling the rush of air while imagining the jump from the top of a building and the pandemonium that followed. I could easily describe the scenes in my voice or become someone else; become anyone… someone stronger, smarter, more exciting, or better able to cope with it all. Instead, along with nausea, insomnia, irritability and cravings, I’m stuck staring at things, flitting from task to task without finishing, and spacing out on the computer screen wondering where I was for the past minutes.
Where did I go?
I close my eyes now and there’s nothing. Grey. It’s disheartening when all I want to do is write something beautiful or simply get something out. It’s enough to make me take up smoking again.
I’ve trodden this road before, and I’m still of two minds about it. I’ve written about my decision before to stop taking everything. I don’t have that option now but it does beg that I address the question yet again. Which is worse? Being grey or the pain that comes along with the non-stop black hole of an imagination?
It’s put a giant stop sign in front of me. Hell, even without it as a career goal, writing has always been the lone thing that I do for myself; my only real form of self-care, the only thing I’d stop everything for when inspiration struck. Without it now, I don’t know if I’m enjoying life, even if I am less unhappy. There’s just nothing to get excited about (or maybe I’m incapable of any extremes of emotion, including excitement??!! who wants that?!)
I don’t even pretend to understand what this all means or what the answer is. Maybe someone else has a better perspective. It could all be that delicate balancing act where I haven’t yet found my footing on the rope or my center of gravity.
There are some things here to wrestle with and this is a big question that every person in this situation has to answer. I can’t knock the meds, but I can’t know the illness either, I wouldn’t be who I am without it and I wouldn’t have created half of the things I have without it. Maybe I can look at this as a temporary hiatus while I have a little holiday. I’ve never been one for patience and I spent the evening crying and wishing I had my stories back to, if nothing else, escape the grey of real life. I want my colors back.